ANGRY at Michael.

DancingTheDreamDancingTheDream Posts: 4,923
edited January 1970 in General MJ Discussion
Hi.

Having an off day so wanted to write this thread. Im sure im not the only one to feel and think these things from time to time.

Before you read on, i love Michael and i know all the adversities that he has had in his life and also all the lies, the media slurs, etc.... I have learnt to read between the lines and take a lot of stuff with a pinch of salt.

I love him and miss him and this year has been so difficult in so many ways. I cannot let go of the idea of the hoax due to all the evidence which led me here in the first place.

However, there are un-deniable voices in my head which tell me he has died, and i am in denial and that people are playing games with our heads. Know what i mean?

I think i wont be able to rest until i know the truth and i am hoping that the trial will bring the truth to light.

Thing is.. i have been thinking this lately...

If it turns out to be true that Michael willingly took Propofol that morning... and that he knew what it was and that he knew the risks... and that he begged and demanded it... then i will be so ANGRY with him!

No matter what was wrong with MJ. No matter what pressures he was under... no matter how unhappy he was.. if he made that decision knowing the risks then i will be angry as hell.

If its true that the nurse warned him not to take it and showed him a medical book with all the risks in it, and he ignored her.. i will be ANGRY!

Even if Michael didnt care anymore. If he was depressed and didnt care about himself, or his wider family or his fans or his image, etc.... the three things that should have stopped him taking those drugs are his three children.
Three children now left (effectively) orphaned, confused and alone in a World they have been sheltered from and will be unable to live obscure and normal lives due to the fact they are Michaels children.

Michael knew the pain of a robbed childhood. He wanted to give his children what he didnt have.. an idyllic and care free childhood. Now those children have grief and pain and loss to deal with. Blanket doesnt even know who his mother is.. he is all alone in this. Makes me mad!!!!

If its true that Prince witnessed Michael being given CPR, then that is a memory and a scar that will last a lifetime.

I worry those children will go off the rails when they are older. When they fully understand what happened, if they find out their father took extremely dangerous drugs to sleep and left them all alone in the world to cope with the aftermath... i fear they will go off the rails or fall into despair and depression.

Michael had it all. He had fame and talent and riches and love.. loved by the world and loved by those three children whom he decided to raise as a lone father. I will be so god damn ANGRY if it turns out he died and he died needlessly because he demanded drugs.

Im sorry for the rant.. i hope some people here understand. I think this is part of my grief and struggle to understand what is happening to me and to the World. Nothing makes sense anymore.
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  • mumof3mumof3 Posts: 1,973
    I do understand
    I feel the same and today is a bad day for me as well in fact one of the worse for some unknown reason
    I just keep thinking Michael got to powerfull the first time then the child abuse case comes up then a few years down the line he gets to powerfull again and another child abuse accusation is thrown at him it nearly kills him and of course it was all a lie,he goes away and tries to get over it and get his health back then he regroups and tii is announced and the rehearsals start and power is back for him big time he is going to be bigger than ever he is trying to change the world he is going to talk and say some very important things to us he is getting to powerfull and then the 25th
    I was thinking about this all day as we all have he either excaped or was murdered I just cant believe he was willing to cheat his poor children of a father or not realise the danger of the stuff he was supposed to have taken it is just the thought of somebody getting in there and pumping with the stuff that worries me so much sorry to be miserable today but just an off day .
    I still feel it is more of an escape for his life more than anything at the moment
  • i understand how you feel cause i felt exactly the same back in the 90's when Michael had addiction problems at this time. I felt "angry" i must say...because i thought Michael had to be stronger than that. but then i just felt i was wrong, and told myself Michael is only human, can be frail, can make mistakes, and so i loved him more, because i felt he needed it.

    "Angry" is a selfish feeling created of what you wished Michael to be, for his kids, for the world, for you... Just try to get back to the LOVE he needs, as a man, as a father, as a non perfect human being.
  • SouzaSouza Posts: 9,400
    Are you serious?

    I don't understand this at all.

    First of all I need to say that IF this is not a hoax (which is impossible in my opinion, but that aside) it would clearly be murder. Many people have stated that he was in great shape, that he was excited and not a druggie. The story doesn't make sense at all, so if you choose to believe it's not a hoax, then you should at least think someone killed him (although that wouldn't make sense at all, see TS update #4).

    I haven't seen the kids grieving and heart broken the past year, quite the contrary. They look happy, strong and healthy. Mike was in great health and great shape according to Lou and his own brother Jermaine. You may not like him, fine by me, but he is his brother and one of the most reliable sources. That or he and the rest of the family are all cold hearted and none of them loved Mike, I don't buy that for a second.

    I wish his fans would give him more credit and listen to what he has to say, instead of what the media says. He should have taught you that by now and you shouldn't even consider this.

    "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places."

  • Wow, this is great. You guys have got balls, I'll give you that. And I love it <!-- s:D -->:D<!-- s:D -->

    I understand what you feel because I have been there a time or so myself. I wasn't angry about it, but it made me wonder, how could he. However, I believe if Michael died, he was killed as a part of a conspiracy and the drug thing blown out of proportion to cover it up.

    I was angry though with Michael when he told Bashir about the children sleeping in his bed. I was furious that he allowed himself to trust this person with that information, even though I know Michael wasn't a pedophile. It opened him up to the worse scrutiny possible, especially since he had been previously, publicly accused. My worst fears came true when he was accused again and this time charged. They painted him as a homosexual pedophile and it hurt like hell. I felt like he told this man too much, way too much. He was a reporter for heaven's sake and all he really wanted was a story, the biggest story of the century. And dammit, he got it.
  • well said Souza <!-- s:D -->:D<!-- s:D -->
    there is nothing that could or would make me mad.
    he is only human
  • Gosh, when you put it like that I just want to drown in sorrow again <!-- s:cry: -->:cry:<!-- s:cry: --> . I do however understand where you're coming from because if that would turn out to be the case, it was indeed very very irresponsible of him. On the other hand I could never be angry with Michael, ever! How could I after all the joy he has given me? He sacrificed a lot of himself in order to bring beauty to this world, and somehow I just can't be angry with him for being human even if it lead to the end <!-- s:( -->:(<!-- s:( --> .

    I do however feel angry sometimes or perhaps very frustrated with how things have turned out. I'm just not completely sure where I'm directing that anger or frustration, the world? mankind? destiny? The hardest feeling to handle is the feeling of helplessness that comes afterwards...

    We've heard that Michael had used this drug before and if he really was begging for it I'd assume he was addicted to it, not a very far-fetched assumption considering his alleged abuse of pain meds. Now, when it comes to addiction we how to understand that it knows no reason. I've unfortunately experienced it up-close. It was emotionally and mentally draining. Trying to understand, trying to help, the anger, the sadness, the frustration, it really isn't something one can just leave behind in a day just like that. I think we know that wealth does not necessarily bring happiness and people just have different ways of dealing with their hurt... The doctors should've refused him those things but thing is Michael would probably always have been able to get it somewhere else. And right here lies a huge part of my anger. It all comes down to MONEY.

    Nowdays I see no convincing argument for a hoax and don't get me wrong I wish more than anything that Michael was still here with us but sadly it doesn't seem like he is <!-- s:cry: -->:cry:<!-- s:cry: --> <!-- s:cry: -->:cry:<!-- s:cry: --> In the end I believe that all the inconsistencies will be proved (hopefully) to be the result of evil, who's source is money... I just want the truth, I don't care if it's a hoax, or conspiracy or whatever, I just want to know!
  • Wow, this is great. You guys have got balls, I'll give you that. And I love it <!-- s:D -->:D<!-- s:D -->

    I understand what you feel because I have been there a time or so myself. I wasn't angry about it, but it made me wonder, how could he. However, I believe if Michael died, he was killed as a part of a conspiracy and the drug thing blown out of proportion to cover it up.

    I was angry though with Michael when he told Bashir about the children sleeping in his bed. I was furious that he allowed himself to trust this person with that information, even though I know Michael wasn't a pedophile. It opened him up to the worse scrutiny possible, especially since he had been previously, publicly accused. My worst fears came true when he was accused again and this time charged. They painted him as a homosexual pedophile and it hurt like hell. I felt like he told this man too much, way too much. He was a reporter for heaven's sake and all he really wanted was a story, the biggest story of the century. And dammit, he got it.

    Yes but Michael just wanted really bad that people finally knew who he was. I think he was trusting this guy, hoping to have a possibility to finally open his heart and make people see who he was. To do so, he had to trust and give a lot about himself. He was of course wrong, but i think he really wanted to do this. He trusted Bashir because of the interview of Lady Diana he made.

    When media can be a way to show you're not a "wacko", wouldn't you take the chance ? I think Michael maybe hoped he could turn the journalist into a good man during his stay in Neverland. He maybe thought he would manage to make him change and speak the truth, just by showing him a part of his privacy to proove who he really was at this time. Hw could you get the best of someone if you don't put your trust in him ? Michael thought it was possible with Bashir, he was wrong. But we cannot blame him for still having hope in human nature...
  • Are you serious?

    I don't understand this at all.

    First of all I need to say that IF this is not a hoax (which is impossible in my opinion, but that aside) it would clearly be murder. Many people have stated that he was in great shape, that he was excited and not a druggie. The story doesn't make sense at all, so if you choose to believe it's not a hoax, then you should at least think someone killed him (although that wouldn't make sense at all, see TS update #4).

    I haven't seen the kids grieving and heart broken the past year, quite the contrary. They look happy, strong and healthy. Mike was in great health and great shape according to Lou and his own brother Jermaine. You may not like him, fine by me, but he is his brother and one of the most reliable sources. That or he and the rest of the family are all cold hearted and none of them loved Mike, I don't buy that for a second.

    I wish his fans would give him more credit and listen to what he has to say, instead of what the media says. He should have taught you that by now and you shouldn't even consider this.

    Wasn't it said that Michael was sleeping while Murray went to the bathroom, and that Murray said Michael surely woke up and got an extra shoot by himself, which seem really impossible when you see how people behave while under anesthesia...how could he, in a few minutes time, wake up, realise he only slept for small time, get angry, find drug and get himseld a new injection...all this while just woke up from anesthesia ???

    Makes no sense !! If Michael got to sleep for never to wake up, he surely didn't do that himself !!
    Anyway, if it truly happen, please remember that drug addiction is not a CHOICE. Michael surely didn't want his kids to be left alone, his familly to be sad, his fans to be sad...if he was drug addicted, he surely wasn't responsible and needed HELP, more than "criticism" (cannot spell it tonight lol)
  • No, no, no (waving my arms in the air like in This Is Is - one of my fave moments) <!-- s:D -->:D<!-- s:D --> as soon as he said that i jumped up and screamed at the television. I was like Michael, don't trust this dude. I just could not believe he had just said that. As soon as he did, it seemed Bashir had a little smirk on his face and dollar signs in his eyes. I understood Michael's need to get his story out, but God, my heart skipped a couple of beats when he said that. I wanted to get in the tv and shake him, and then give him a big ole hug <!-- s:( -->:(<!-- s:( -->
  • this is the moment you wish to be Will Smith in Men in Black and get this little red light and
    FLASH Bashir and :

    "Mr Bashir, you've heard nothing at all, you are pretty happy of your stay at Neverland and you're gonna make a nice documentary about Michael Jackson....hum, Michael, you wanna say something more ? What, you want Bashir to make the whole documentary with pop corn in his nose ? Hum don't you think that's gonna be too much ?" <!-- s:lol: -->:lol:<!-- s:lol: -->
  • <!-- s:lol: -->:lol:<!-- s:lol: --> ya know, right! <!-- s:lol: -->:lol:<!-- s:lol: -->
  • I have to say I have had these feelings from time to time but all joking aside, it's usually when I'm PMSing and not thinking clearly! LOL So I just chalk it up to crazy hormones and wait for those to regulate! <!-- s:lol: -->:lol:<!-- s:lol: -->

    Seriously though, I do get these thoughts, but all I have to do is review why I thought there was a hoax in the first place, why I came to this site, sometimes I pretend I've never been on this site and I read the sections for new people, and then I come to my senses.

    There is just way too much in my mind showing me that Michael is alive, his death was a hoax, and we are part of the greatest demonstration of freedom! <!-- s:lol: -->:lol:<!-- s:lol: -->

    However, I do want to thank you for being courageous enough to voice your doubts because this is the place to do it. Too many people get doubts, don't talk about it, don't work through things, and just fade away from what I believe is a great work we all need to do.

    Hang in there hun...
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    Grief is hard!

    Here is the grief model called "The 7 Stages of Grief":

    1. SHOCK & DENIAL-
    You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. You may deny the reality of the loss at some level, in order to avoid the pain. Shock provides emotional protection from being overwhelmed all at once. This may last for weeks.

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    As the shock wears off, it is replaced with the suffering of unbelievable pain. Although excruciating and almost unbearable, it is important that you experience the pain fully, and not hide it, avoid it or escape from it with alcohol or drugs.

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    3. ANGER & BARGAINING-
    Frustration gives way to anger, and you may lash out and lay unwarranted blame for the death on someone else. Please try to control this, as permanent damage to your relationships may result. This is a time for the release of bottled up emotion.

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    During this, the last of the seven stages in this grief model, you learn to accept and deal with the reality of your situation. Acceptance does not necessarily mean instant happiness. Given the pain and turmoil you have experienced, you can never return to the carefree, untroubled YOU that existed before this tragedy. But you will find a way forward.

    7 stages of grief...

    You will start to look forward and actually plan things for the future. Eventually, you will be able to think about your lost loved one without pain; sadness, yes, but the wrenching pain will be gone. You will once again anticipate some good times to come, and yes, even find joy again in the experience of living.

    Hi,

    I pray that the feelings you are having will pass quickly for you. In the meantime if you find it difficult to get through a day and your feeling blue, I pray that you will find this info I posted to be of help to you.

    Don't worry it gets greater later. <!-- s:D -->:D<!-- s:D -->

    I wish I could give you and anyone else who goes through these bad days some of my strength in my belief and faith that Michael is 100% alive and doing great. <!-- s;) -->;)<!-- s;) -->

    What you are experiencing is normal and it doesn't mean that you are weak, it means your human. Humans have emotions/feelings and not all of them are nice and fuzzy, embracing your feelings and acknowledging them, confronting them and finally accepting them is a healthy process to finally be at peace.


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  • So what do i do if i got the seven stages, and that HOPE is "HOPE for Michael to be alive"....

    Cause i really was convinced he died, i worked on myself to move on, and really learned about those "stages"...after that i decided to act and share with people about Michael, and do something to make the world better. But then, as i was ok with it, i found evidences about Michael being alive, studied them with a clear mind and was convinced that Michael is alive.

    So can we still talk about grieving and denial for believer <!-- s:roll: -->:roll:<!-- s:roll: -->
  • I think so because for me, I'm still worried about his state of being. Is he okay? Is he hurt or sick? Is he happy? What? I still worry about him and truth be known, I grieve the Michael that we lost because that one is gone forever <!-- s:? -->:?<!-- s:? --> If and when he comes back, it will not be to the life he had before. It's a new awakening. At least, that is my belief.
  • I think so because for me, I'm still worried about his state of being. Is he okay? Is he hurt or sick? Is he happy? What? I still worry about him and truth be known, I grieve the Michael that we lost because that one is gone forever <!-- s:? -->:?<!-- s:? --> If and when he comes back, it will not be to the life he had before. It's a new awakening. At least, that is my belief.
    I feel the same : im not worried about him being gone. I just want to make sure he's ok. I could live my life at peace if i only had 1 word from Michael saying "i'm gone,for personnal reason, everything's fine for me" But we don't know for sure. I just hope clues are here for that purpose.
  • Exactly! Michael, if you're reading this... <!-- s:? -->:?<!-- s:? --> well, you get my drift. Just praying that all is well.
  • DiscoDisco Posts: 286
    Its ok to have a bad day & be angry <!-- s:) -->:)<!-- s:) -->
    To be honest I really can not except the "Drug" story So many conflicting reports, Regarding the children....Well the chef had said on her interview on Larry King that the children were not up stairs when all the drama was going on when Murray called for assistance, She said they were not allowed upstairs and remained downstairs with her <!-- s8-) -->8-)<!-- s8-) -->
    What does anger me is all the conflicting stories & why are more people not questioning what is going on <!-- s:x -->:x<!-- s:x -->
    We all know Michael is human & is prone to fault as we all are but the "Drug" story really is over the top in my view, If the courtcase case goes ahead it will be Michael, Murray & the media on trail <!-- s;) -->;)<!-- s;) -->
  • I'm not going to judge you for it. Anger is part of grief and manifests itself in the weirdest ways. My mind did the weirdest things to me cause it hurt too much to love him at times, fooling me into thinking I don't love him anymore sometimes though it's not true. Right now, I just feel like no one in the world has hurt me more than him, cause I let him by getting too too attached years ago cause of running from my own stress
  • Ugh. I agree with Souza. We are much too far into this for anyone to be thinking this way. You are entitled to have "off" days, but we simply cannot throw out everything we know to be true and everything we know NOT to be true. We are so far beyond speculation and hope (as far as whether or not he's alive), that this kind of thinking is a giant step backward. It's a waste of time. Sorry to be blunt, but I really feel it's important that we stop letting our emotions stunt our progress. There have been times I've been angry in the past, angry that it's taking so long and angry that more people aren't "getting it". But I soon realized that the negative energy created from being angry only does harm to the progress and outcome of the hoax.

    Please, even if you get in a bad mood about this, try not to let it take control of your logic and reasoning. I've noticed the majority of people leaving the forum are those that are getting impatient and discouraged because the hoax has not come to an end yet. News flash: the big reveal, the "BAM", is only going to be the beginning. This is not all fun and games. Yes it's been very entertaining, but the point of it all is to expose the harsh reality we are living in.

    Please don't forget the reasons, don't forget the message. If this doesn't come to an end...if this isn't all revealed, it will only be because there was not enough energy making it happen. Meaning, there was not enough people believing and supporting this no matter what. It will only fail if you give up. Sure, there's always that chance that we are all wrong and this will never be revealed. But if we don't try then how will we ever know either way?

    As Janis Joplin said, "Freedoms just another word for 'nothing left to lose'". This hoax has taught me that the only real freedom I have is my own freedom of thought. Nobody can take that away. So let's stick with this, in what will be the greatest demonstration of freedom in history. Perhaps the 'demonstration of freedom' is not only Michael breaking free and hoaxing his death, but all of us breaking free from the cage of lies they've created for us. It's now or never.
  • Thankyou for all your replies and thoughts.

    I cant help how i feel.

    Today i am having a sad day. I do question everything and, although i can see and understand that this may be a hoax.. i also question whether its because we are being lied to for a different reason.

    Maybe MJ really has died but we are being lied to.. lied to about where he is buried, lied to about how and why he really died, etc....

    I just want the truth and am getting tired.

    Ive cried and hurt and been in utter confusion for so long now. Im just tired.

    I love you all here and i will stay until the bitter end and will continue to investigate.
  • SouzaSouza Posts: 9,400
    Thankyou for all your replies and thoughts.

    I cant help how i feel.

    Today i am having a sad day. I do question everything and, although i can see and understand that this may be a hoax.. i also question whether its because we are being lied to for a different reason.

    Maybe MJ really has died but we are being lied to.. lied to about where he is buried, lied to about how and why he really died, etc....

    I just want the truth and am getting tired.

    Ive cried and hurt and been in utter confusion for so long now. Im just tired.

    I love you all here and i will stay until the bitter end and will continue to investigate.

    Did you read TS' posts?

    "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places."


  • Did you read TS' posts?

    No, i havent. Do you have a link? I dont follow TS... sorry x

  • Did you read TS' posts?

    No, i havent. Do you have a link? I dont follow TS... sorry x

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  • To my sorrow deep in my soul, I no longer believe that Michael is alive. I am now with the second option TIAI / TS. that Michael was killed deliberately. And I think that we will never know the truth about his death, alas!
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